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Father falls sick after knowing I'm not his biological daughter – Noratirah

This is part two of a four-series story on babies swapped at birth

Updated 5 years ago · Published on 28 Jun 2021 2:00PM

Father falls sick after knowing I'm not his biological daughter – Noratirah
(From left) Noratirah Husin, Adryana Iwani Ibeni Yanin and Adryani Iwani Ibeni Yanin. The emotional impact of knowing the truth was too much for the two families to bear. – Bernama pic, June 28, 2021

KUALA LUMPUR – A mistake, allegedly made by the staff of a hospital in Kota Bharu, Kelantan, in placing the name tags on two newborn babies, one of them a twin, 20 years ago, led to the children being unknowingly raised by parents who are not their biological parents and taking the name of another man as their father.

The truth of what transpired came to light 19 years later, following a deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) test conducted in September last year.

The emotional impact of knowing the truth was too much for the two families to bear. It was heart-wrenching for all. And for Noratirah, the father she grew up with, Husin Omar, 64, too shocked with the result of the DNA test which confirmed he was not her biological father, died due to a heart attack two months later.

She said the “test” was too heavy for him to endure after hardly two years of losing his wife, Rahmah Isa, who died in 2018 from diabetes.

Noratirah is the twin sister of Adryani Iwani who was swapped at birth with Adryana Iwani.

For 19 years, Adryani Iwani and Adryana Iwani have been living together as non-identical twins, not realising that they were not even biological siblings.

Adryani began getting the impression that she and Noratirah are related after they discovered there are too many mutual likenesses between them. They decided to go for a DNA test.

After discussing the matter with their families, they went to do the test in September last year. Blood samples from Adrayani’s mother, Siti Aminah Ismail, 66, and Husin were also taken for analysis. The result revealed that Noratirah and Adrayani are 99.99% twin sisters. 

“I had already expected the DNA result because of the many similarities I share with Adryani Iwani,” said Noratirah. She was informed of the result of the DNA test by her birth mother (Siti Aminah).

“She called me and I put the phone on loudspeaker so that my father (Husin) and other siblings can hear. My father broke down and cried after hearing it and then complained of chest pains,” she said.

After the results, her father became a different person. He turned quiet and kept to himself more.

Before his death, Noratirah said Husin also told her that he was sad at not having the opportunity to meet her biological father, Ibeni Yanin Mohd Salleh, who died in 2009.

Noratirah, who is taking a Diploma in Early Child Education at the Kota Bharu branch of Kolej Poly-Tech, said she has moved in to stay with her birth mother.

“However, I still maintain ties with my siblings from my father Husin’s side. And when possible we get together at our father’s house,” she said, adding that all of Husin’s children are married and have their own families.

Meanwhile, Adryani Iwani Ibeni Yanin said her mother (Siti Aminah) also broke down after knowing that Adryana Iwani is not her biological daughter.

“She was also worried that the truth would hurt Ana (nickname for Ardyana Iwani) and called me to her room to inform the matter. She also told me to not tell about the result of the DNA test to Ana then,” she said.

As for Adryana Iwani, she said she was sad to only get to know her biological father for two months.

“When I first met him, I had mixed feelings, happy to be able to meet my biological father, and also afraid that he could not accept me.

“I am indeed sad to know that I belong to another family after 19 years. What saddens me more is not being able to meet my birth mother. We suffer because of other people’s mistake,” said the UiTM graduate. – Bernama, June 28, 2021

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